What to Do When Leaving Your Dog Home Alone

This pattern is common in dogs with separation anxiety. Initially, your dog may be distracted by your departure routine or hopeful you'll return quickly. As time passes and you don't return, their anxiety builds until it reaches a threshold where they begin exhibiting destructive behaviors. This delayed reaction suggests your dog can cope for short periods but struggles with longer absences. To address this, work on gradually increasing alone time in small increments, always returning before your dog becomes anxious. Also, provide high-value distractions that last longer, like frozen Kong toys or puzzle feeders that engage them beyond the initial period.

Yes, background noise can be beneficial for many dogs. The silence of an empty house can be unsettling, and sudden outside noises (like sirens or barking dogs) can startle an anxious dog. Music or TV provides consistent, comforting background noise that masks these potentially triggering sounds. Research suggests that classical music, reggae, and soft rock are particularly calming for dogs. There are even music channels and playlists specifically designed for canine relaxation. However, avoid loud volumes or intense content like action movies with sudden explosions or shouting. The goal is to create a soothing auditory environment, not add more stimulation.

This depends on your dog's temperament, training, and the safety of your home. For dogs with anxiety or destructive tendencies, a smaller, dog-proofed space (like a kitchen or utility room with baby gates) is often safer and less overwhelming. This prevents them from getting into trouble throughout the house and can make them feel more secure. For well-adjusted, non-destructive dogs who are fully house-trained, free roaming may be fine. Consider your dog's behavior when you're home - if they already have favorite spots they retreat to, those areas might make good confinement spaces. Whatever you choose, ensure the area is safe, comfortable, and includes water, bedding, and appropriate toys.

This is a classic sign of separation anxiety - your dog is too stressed to eat or play when alone. First, make sure you're using extremely high-value treats that your dog loves (like real meat, cheese, or specialty dog treats). Then, work on building positive associations with your departures in very small steps. Start by simply picking up your keys or putting on your coat, then immediately giving a special treat and not leaving. Gradually increase the steps of your departure routine, always pairing them with high-value rewards. The goal is to change your dog's emotional response from "Oh no, they're leaving!" to "Yay, I get something amazing!" This process requires patience but can significantly reduce anxiety over time.

While this seems like a logical solution, it doesn't always work and can sometimes create double the trouble. Dogs with true separation anxiety are bonded to their humans, not necessarily lonely for canine company. Some dogs do benefit from having a companion, but others may not get along with the new dog, or both may develop anxiety. Before getting a second dog, consider these factors: Does your dog enjoy the company of other dogs? Do you have the resources (time, money, space) for another pet? Could you first try a dog walker or daycare? If you do decide to get another dog, ensure proper introductions and be prepared that it may not solve the alone-time issues. Professional behavior consultation is recommended before making this decision.

Look for these positive signs of progress: Reduced intensity or frequency of vocalization, less destructive behavior, normal panting and breathing (instead of stressed panting), willingness to take treats or engage with toys when alone, and more relaxed body language in security camera footage. Also, watch for calmer behavior during your pre-departure routine - if your dog no longer becomes anxious when you pick up keys or put on shoes, that's significant progress. Keep a simple log noting departure times, behaviors observed (either in person or via camera), and any incidents. This will help you track patterns and recognize improvement over time, even if it's gradual. Celebrate small victories - each step toward comfort with alone time is an achievement.

While individual temperament varies, some breeds are generally more independent and content with alone time. These include many guardian breeds like Great Pyrenees, Mastiffs, and Akitas who were bred to work independently. Some sighthounds like Greyhounds are often calm homebodies. Basset Hounds and Chow Chows also tend to be more independent. Conversely, breeds with strong attachment to their people like Border Collies, Australian Shepherds, Labrador Retrievers, and many small companion breeds often struggle more with separation. However, proper training and preparation can help any breed learn to cope with alone time. The key is matching your lifestyle to a breed's characteristics when choosing a dog, and then providing appropriate training regardless of breed.